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The Arlington Ballroom

Spring 2020 Wedding Promotion at The Arlington Ballroom, Essex

Hi everyone,

We’ve got a fabulous promotion for couples in Southend-on-Sea or the wider Essex area who are planning a wedding in spring 2020!

If you book by 30th November for any date in April or May 2020, you’ll enjoy a complimentary red carpet, complimentary chair covers and complimentary DJ!

You can view our wedding options here. To get in touch about visiting the Arlington Ballroom and talking to our events team, please call 01702 711 350 (10am-4pm weekdays) or email info@thearlingtonballroom.co.uk.

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Back to the '80s Night with Martin Day on 4th October - Dancing, Cocktails and '80s Music!

Hi everyone,

If you like ‘80s music and Martin Day, you’re going to love our upcoming Back to the ‘80s Night with Martin Day on 4th October! Dance the evening away to the hits of the 1980s, and enjoy a breather at our two bars.

Tickets are £7 each or 4 for £20 and can be booked by calling 01702 711 350 (10am-4pm weekdays). We look forward to seeing you!

Update: 4th October is now sold out, but due to popular demand we have added another Back to the ‘80s Night on 8th November!

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Opening Day at The Arlington Ballroom: 13th October 2019

Come along to the Arlington Ballroom to meet our staff, have a look around the ballroom while it’s professionally set up for a wedding ceremony and sample our cocktail bar.

Entry is free, and we’re open from 12:30pm-4:30pm. You can register your interest here. We look forward to seeing you!

Looking for more local wedding fairs? Why not try browsing Guides for Brides? They have a list of upcoming wedding events!

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Half Price Venue Hire at The Arlington Ballroom, Essex, 22nd March 2019

Have you been thinking of throwing an engagement party, birthday party or celebration? We’re offering half price venue hire on Friday 22nd March 2019 for a minimum of 80 people. We have a stunning cocktail bar, can offer a buffet or 3-course meal and can help arrange a DJ or live band.

Please call us asap on 01702 711 350 (10am-4pm weekdays).

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New Cocktail Bar at The Arlington Ballroom

We’re pleased to announce our newly refurbished cocktail bar! Our menu is absolutely fantastic, including Long Island Iced Tea, Mojito, Pornstar Martini, Cosmopolitan and, of course, various gins and mixers!

Our cocktails are priced at £9 each. Just head to our fabulous new cocktail bar to order! Why not try one of our cocktails at our Club Classics nights or any of the events we have coming up?

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5 Benefits of Holding a Midweek Wedding

Midweek weddings are becoming increasingly popular due to a rise in couples choosing quieter, cheaper wedding ceremonies and receptions than they have in years gone by. It’s easy to see why - the average cost of a wedding is around £27,000! So why have a midweek wedding?

Keep Your Costs Down

As we said, weddings are expensive - so why not save your cash and put it toward a house, your family or your honeymoon? Midweek weddings are cheaper than midweek weddings as venue hire is so much cheaper during the week. For example, at The Arlington our Friday venue hire is £450, and Saturday is £600 - but midweek is just £350. That’s £250 you could put elsewhere!

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Be Selective With Your Guests… Which Keeps Costs Down!

You don’t really want your great aunt’s son-in-law and his children at your wedding, do you? A midweek wedding is the perfect excuse to trim your guest list down to those who really matter - the people you know will make the effort to be there. Oh, and a smaller guest list will mean fewer mouths to feed at the wedding reception, fewer complimentary drinks, a smaller cake and possibly even a smaller venue! So you’ll be saving money as well!

That being said, if you send out your save the dates early enough, your guests will have more than enough time to book a day or two'’s holiday!

Have Your Pick of Suppliers… and Pay a Bit Less for Them!

All good suppliers, from photographers to make up artists to venue stylists, will be booked up every weekend for months in advance. But their Wednesdays or their Thursdays are probably free - and cheaper than the weekends! Why not use the money you saved on your venue hire to get in the very best venue stylist, or to splash out on the dress or cake of your dreams?

Save Your Guests Money

B&B, hotel and often travel costs are cheaper during the week than at the weekend. Your guests might not feel as ‘festive’ during the week as they might on a weekend, but they’ll be grateful for the reduced costs associated with your big day!

Marry On a Special Day

It’s not all about saving money! Did you get engaged on an anniversary, or meet on a special day? With a midweek wedding, you have greater choice of wedding dates, so you can take advantage and get married on a date that really means something to you!

Have we persuaded you that a midweek wedding is a good idea? Get in touch with us on 01702 711 350 or email info@thearlingtonballroom.co.uk to book a consultation. Browse our wedding page and options here.

What is a Humanist Wedding? A Guide for Secular Couples

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Humanist weddings are increasingly popular, as non-religious or multi-faith couples wish to celebrate their wedding somewhere other than a religious building or a simple registry office. But what exactly is a humanist wedding? Simply put, humanist weddings are non-religious, or secular. There aren’t any rules per se, so couples can tailor their wedding to their exact specifications!

Are Humanist Weddings Legally Binding?

As of 2018, humanist weddings are not legally binding in England and Wales and couples require a civil ceremony as well as or alongside their humanist ceremony. Humanist weddings are legally binding in Scotland and Northern Ireland, and activists are pressing the UK government for change in England and Wales.

Are Wedding Vows Allowed? Is Music Allowed? What is Allowed at a Humanist Wedding?

Anything is allowed! You can have poetry readings, live music, a speech from a friend or loved one. You can write your own vows, incorporating your favourite music or poetry, or even incorporating something from a religious text that you do like. You can include elements of ‘traditional’ weddings - the white dress, bridesmaids, a bouquet… or not! It’s really up to you and what you want: a big appeal of humanist weddings is the bespoke element. Whether you’re an LGBT couple, a multi-faith couple or simply looking for something that isn’t ‘a church wedding’ or ‘a ceremony at a registry office’, you can tailor your wedding to you, as a couple.

What is a Celebrant?

Although popular in countries like Australia, the term ‘celebrant’ isn’t very well known in the UK. A celebrant is the person who conducts the ceremony, often writing or creating the ceremony. You can find a celebrant using Humanist.org.uk’s interactive map. You can also learn more about what celebrants are with Humanist.org.uk’s guide.

Can a Humanist Wedding Take Place Outside?

Yes! As we said, humanist weddings are not legally binding in England so you will have to have a civil ceremony as well.

Where Can I Have a Humanist Wedding in Essex?

Pretty much anywhere! Some people choose the beach, some choose their front room, some choose a traditional wedding venue. At the Arlington Ballroom, we’re always happy to host a humanist wedding! We’re also licensed for civil ceremonies, so you can always have a registrar conduct your legally-binding ceremony alongside all your preferred ‘humanist’ elements. We also host wedding receptions, so you can hold your wedding underneath one roof! You can learn about our wedding packages and what we offer on our Weddings page.

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